Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Chick Fil A....Boy oh Boy!

I generally stay out of emotional, political debates because I feel that personal opinions are just that--they are personal. How I think, how I feel, how I choose to live........those are my choices. But I also respect others choices as well. It's hard to sit back and be an American and not weigh in on the Chick-fil-A situation as it stands. I have seen it enough in the news this week to want to rip my hair out and scream but here's the bottom line. If everyone wants their opinions respected, if everyone wants equality, then we simply HAVE to   respect the voice of those who also might oppose our opinions or beliefs. When I first caught wind of what had happened, I immediately thought the CEO of Chick-fil-A, Dan Cathy, must have really said some rotten things about gay people. When I saw the interview and read what he REALLY said, I wanted to stand up and applaud him. Not because I agree or disagree with his feelings but because he stood up and stayed true to what he believes in. How on Earth does that make him a bigot? A hater? In raising my 4 children, I am doing my best to teach them right from wrong but I am also teaching them to stand up for themselves and what they believe in and I feel that Dan Cathy has done just that. It's not like he set out for this mission to get his opinions out there and tell the world what he thinks. He was asked, during a CHRISTIAN interview how he feels. Let's also remember that Chick-fil-A is a known Christian business who is not even open on Sundays! They are a privately held, family owned business with very traditional beliefs and values. So of course if you ask them what they believe, they are going to support the biblical definition of marriage. Why is this offensive? I am so confused. If I had a dollar for every time someone disagreed with my opinion on matters I would be a millionaire! 

Bottom line. I love gay people. I love straight people. I have both gay and straight friends. What lifestyle people personally choose is their choice, not mine. BUT, we must face the fact that everybody is not going to agree and if you want your opinion respected, you must also respect those who might oppose your opinion as well. Just because someone disagrees with you doesn't make them wrong. Respect the opinions of others and realize that free speech was not just given to one side or the other. We have all been given the right to think and feel however we want to and we all need to accept that. 

Monday, July 30, 2012

Love You Forever

We love books around here and one of my favorites is "Love you Forever" by Robert Munsch.  My son's first grade class did a little skit to the story last year and it was so sweet. Now my 2 year old loves to hear it and we found it on YouTube so we wanted to share!


What's your favorite story to read to your children???

Friday, July 27, 2012

MyLife.Com

Do you ever wonder about the people that you went to school with when you were a kid? Maybe an old co-worker that you might have lost touch with or even a distant family member who you haven't seen in awhile? Sometimes certain people will pop into my head from my past and I will wonder where they are at or what they are doing now but sometimes I will also wonder if they remember me. One day I was in the dentist office and I recognized a guy I went to school with. I remembered his name and asked him how he was and he looked at me like I was from another planet. I couldn't believe he didn't even remember my name!!!  MyLife.Com is a website that allows you to see who has been searching for YOU!  

If you are just a *tad* bit curious about if someone might be out there looking for you on the internet, youc an use the online service at MyLife.com to find out!!  It's fast and easy and even better, completely FREE! I have always thought that it would be nice to find out what some of those people from my past are up to today and this is a great way to find out!!!

MyLife.com was established in 2002 and is based in the USA. It was originally named reunion.com but is now known as MyLife.com.  It's a social networking platform where you can create profiles and connect with others from your past.  The company received $25 million in venture funding in 2007 from Oak Investement Partners. All you need is a computer with the internet, live in the USA and know your zip code and have a valid email address.  If you have all of these requirements, simply visit the mylife.com website. Enter your first name, last name, age and zip code into the required fields and click "Find Out Now." Enter your gender, primary email address and birth date and then click on "See Full Results."  Complete the registration process and review the full results for your search.   

What a fun and easy way to find some of those people from your past. Is there anybody from your past that you would like to find????

*This is a sponsored post. All opinions are my own*

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Purina Pro Plan’s “How is Your Dog Great?” Video Contest



We didn't have a lot of pets growing up so I was never really exposed to a lot of animals. That all changed though when I got married and had children of my own.  Although it has been hard finding a good pet for our family, I have to say...it's been a wild but fun ride having different animals in our home. Our first pet was Harlem, a crazy hedgehog.  I almost died when my husband brought it home but figured I got the good end of the deal because my brother in law who was with my husband brought home baby ducks for his family. LOL We learned after this that we should never send them  anywhere together ever again!!!  After the hedgehog we had fish, hermit crabs, and my least favorite, a red-tail boa constrictor.  I quickly decided that reptiles weren't really my "thing" so we decided that dogs and cats were more up our alley!!!

For some reason every time someone finds an animal, it ends up at our house! This is the stray kitten that came home with my kids from church last year.  Aiden thought that was the greatest thing and so we let him name him.....he named him "dog dog." HA!



This is Rambo and Krush, two of our families favorite doggies! Rambo is a Bull Mastiff and Krush is an English Bulldog.  They are best friends and they love to fight and wrestle around together but at the end of the day, their favorite thing to do is snuggle!!!! Rambo is the gentle giant and Krush is a total maniac!!  Two completely different personalities but both so sweet and loyal!!!


It's been a super hot summer here in Ohio and Krush has come to LOVE her swimming pool and the water hose!!! 


This is another member of our family, Marcy. Marcy is a spoiled Yorkie Papillon mix who is very naughty!!! She eats everything that is in sight, including clothes, shoes, paper and anything else you can imagine. Once while we were all at church she ate almost 1/4 of a pair of JEANS! Yep. This means that she is an expensive dog because she has had to have surgery to get things removed from her stomach that she has eaten. But we can't imagine our family without her because she and our 2 year old are best buddies! When we walk in the door the first thing Aiden does is start yelling for her and she comes running! 


Here is Marcy and Rambo hanging out and watching out the window together. Too funny!!!!


Do you have dogs? If so, Purina® Pro Plan® is asking passionate pet owners across the country to put their dog's greatness on display in the "How is Your Dog Great?" video contest!!!  From now until August 27, 2012, you can upload a short film, less than 2 minutes in length to the Pro Plan YouTube channel. Videos should demonstrate moments along their dog's journey toward greatness that inspire others to discover the greatness in their dog. The grand prize winner will have their winning video featured in a Pro Plan commercial!!!! The commercial will be unveiled at the 2013 Westminster Dog Show presented by Purina Pro Plan. The winner will also receive a year's supply of Pro Plan dog food!!! Visit the Pro Plan YouTube Channel for more info!!!!



*I was compensated for this sponsored post made possible by Mom Spark Media. Thoughts are my own.


National S'mores Day with Balance Bar




I have been watching what I eat for the past few months now but there are certain things in the summer time that I would totally ruin my diet for and one of those things is s'mores and roasted marshmallows. There is just something so calming and relaxing about sitting around a fire with my family and eating those gooey sandwiches of melted perfection. Good for the soul but definitely not for the backside. That is why I was so stoked when I found out about the Balance Bar S’mores!!!!  



Balance Bar®, one of America’s original nutrition/energy bar leaders, has recreated the favorite campfire treat to provide a healthier option. Balance Bar S’mores has a crisp layer of graham cracker topped with a light marshmallow filling and covered with a scrumptious milk chocolate coating. This indulgent snack is specially formulated to help keep busy folks nutritionally balanced and to provide them with lasting energy so they can enjoy what they love to do in their active day-to-day lives. 


Each 1.76 oz. single-serve Balance Bar S’mores contains14g of quality protein, 200 calories, 23 vitamins and minerals with an excellent source of antioxidants and vitamin D, and adheres to Balance Bar’s proven healthy 40/30/30 nutritional model (40% of calories come from healthy carbohydrates, 30% from quality protein, and 30% from dietary fat) to help stabilize blood sugar levels, satisfy hunger and provide lasting energy.

First of all, I am already a huge fan of Balance Bar so I knew I was going to be in for a treat. I love grabbing bars on the go and the fact that this was a S'more bar, I was all in. It was love at first bite. I have faithfully eaten one of the Balance Bar S'mores every single morning since they arrived on my doorstep and you would have thought the world was ending yesterday when I realized I had eaten my last one. A trip to the store is definitely in order because honestly, these are so tasty!!!  Now when National S'mores day rolls around on August 10th, I don't have to worry about my waste line.  I will just grab a Balance Bar S'more and all will be good!!!!!


To get a $1 Balance Bar coupon, go to www.balance.com and click on "Get a Valuable Coupon!" 


GIVEAWAY





One lucky reader is going to win their own Balance Bar S’mores prize pack including one 15-count box of Balance Bar S’mores and a large canvas Balance Bar zippered tote measuring 19 ½” x 16”. Retail Value of Prize is $48




*This is not a paid post. All opinions are my own. Review and Giveaway were provided at no cost by the company and/or PR rep. One winner per household, email address or home address. If you have won this prize on another blog, you are not eligible to win again*

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Florsheim Kids



I am always on the lookout for high quality shoes for my children, especially my 3 boys because they are all so hard on shoes. It's hard to find a company that offers not only the quality we are looking for but also the style and price so we were SO excited to be introduced to Florsheim Kids!!!  This new shoe line is full of colorful, fun shoes just for the little boys in your life.  We received the Kennett Jr. in Navy Blue and I love watching our 7 year old in them. The shoe is what I would consider a semi-dressy shoe but not too dressy that they can't be worn casually as well. Our son has worn them to church a couple of times with dress pants but then he has also worn them as a casual shoe with a nice shorts outfit.



One of my favorite styles is the Lakeside Ox Jr. This shoe has it all and can be worn in so many different ways!!!! We actually have a pair of these on the way for our 10 year old son and I cannot wait until they arrive!!!!!

I also like the Quinlan Jr because it is also a diverse shoe that can be worn with many different types of outfits!

I am so glad we have been introduced to Florsheim Kids! Be sure to check out their website to see all of the shoes they offer.




You can also like the Florsheim Facebook Page to keep up with what's new!!

GIVEAWAY

One lucky winner is going to receive a $60 Gift Certificate to Florsheim Kids!!!!


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*This is not a paid post. All opinions are my own. Review and Giveaway were provided at no cost by the company and/or representing PR firm*

Axl's Closet

It's almost back to school time so I wanted to share this with you as quickly as possible as I don't know how long it is going to last. If you visit Axl's Closet, you can receive $20 off of your order using the code SHARING_IS_CARING. 

If the item is under $20, you receive the item for FREE! I found so many awesome things that I wanted to get but ultimately I decided on a new Quiksilver backpack for one of our boys. It was $25 and with the code, I only paid $5. As an added bonus, they take Paypal so I didn't even have to use my credit card AND they have FREE shipping to the U.S. so I didn't have to pay shipping. You can't get a better deal than that! Hurry up and check it out before the offer ends!!!!





*This is not a paid post. All opinions are my own*





Guest Post: Looking Good


Looking Good
By: Ada Hilton

This week we did not have a really great weight loss but we had still had victories.
Rick only lost 1 pound but his sugar was in the normal range (70-120) all week. I know that for some this may not seem like a big deal but his sugar has not been anywhere near the normal range for at least 2 years.
He is so excited that he tells everyone he sees that Nutrisystem saved his life.
I lost only one pound as well, but I lost 2 inches on my waist and 1 inch around my chest. So it is all good.
I have to admit that I think the reason for my low weight loss is that I was so busy that I skipped a few meals. I just didn’t have time to stop and eat. So next food order I will order more ready to grab lunches. I am so busy during a work day that I can’t always stop to eat.
I also got online and checked out some recipes to try so I am ready for a new week and new food dishes.
Stay tuned and I will let you know which ones I tried and which ones we liked.

Total Weight Loss to Date: 9 pounds each!!!!

Want to lose weight and get healthy on Nutrisystem? Join today by calling 1-888-853-4689 or by visiting http://www.nutrisystem.com/nsblog

*Ada is trying out the Women's Success Select Program and Rick is trying out the Nutrisystem D program for person's with diabetes, both free of charge.  All opinions are 100% their own*

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Staybridge Suites Indianapolis/Carmel Travel Review



If you find yourself in need of a hotel in the Indianapolis area, the Staybridge Suites is a great choice.  Below you will find our score card on our recent stay. 







Rates: We felt the rates were very fair for this facility. We paid $89/night which is a great deal! Their average rate is $117 which is still fair. 

Parking: There is a huge parking lot for hotel visitors to park.We had no trouble finding a parking spot that was close to the building, even when the hotel was completely booked. There are plenty of handicap parking spots up front and there are also temporary parking spots by the main entrance for people who are checking in. 

Check In/Out: Checking in and out was extremely quick. It took less than 3 minutes to check in.

Rooms: Staybridge Suites went above and beyond when creating their rooms. We stayed in the One Bed Queen Suite and we were very pleased with the room. First, every room has a full kitchen. That not only included a full sized refrigerator with a freezer but it also had a microwave, dishwasher, stove top, coffee pot and a toaster. The cabinets were filled with dishes, pots, pans, etc. and the drawers had silverware and plastic utensils for cooking.  They even included things like sugar, creamer, salt and pepper! We received complimentary coffee and microwave popcorn as well which I thought was a great touch. The living area included a couch that folded out into a bed, 2 small end tables and a television.  The bed had high-quality linens and super comfy pillows and if the pillows aren't the kind that you like, there are other types in the closet so you can swap them out. The bathroom had a spacious shower and there was a separate area outside of the bathroom with a vanity that included plenty of drawer space to keep all of your stuff tucked away.  One of the things that I didn't like about the room is that there wasn't a bathtub. We travel with our children most of the time and our 2 year old isn't really good at taking shower quite yet and would have preferred a bath.  Also, when the sofa bed is pulled out, it is directly across from the queen bed and makes that area of the room very crowded and leaves very little privacy. 



Amenities: I can't say enough good things about the amenities at Staybridge Suites.  If you need to do the laundry while you are there, they offer a full laundry room with 5 washers and dryers and they do not charge anything for you to use them.  Connected to the laundry room is the fitness room so you don't have to miss a workout while you are out of town. The indoor pool is in a separate part of the building which was perfect because the kids were able to play and be as loud as they wanted and didn't have to worry about disturbing anybody because from the outside, it was pretty much sound proofed.  There was a nice rack of towels in the pool area as well so we didn't have to worry about hauling towels back and forth from the pool area to our room.  Every room includes free wi-fi and there is also a computer room with two computers and a printer that guests can utilize.  The best part about the facility is the outdoor area. It is perfect to relax and have a great time. It is super spacious with different areas that contain tables, chairs, a fireplace and even gas grills that you can cook on!  We were able to sit in the outdoor area and have adult conversation while watching the kids in the pool so this was perfect for us.  The first night we stayed, several of the guys in our group stayed outside chit chatting until nearly 5 a.m. and it was great because they could stay up and hang out without disturbing anybody. When we needed the kids to unwind in the evening, we stuck them in the family theater where they enjoyed watching movies on a big screen television while sitting on large, leather chairs! 



Family Friendlienss: This hotel is extremely family friendly. From the rooms to the amenities, the Staybridge Suites was designed with the family in mind. 


Customer Service: Prior to our last day at the facility, I would have given customer service a 10 rating. The front desk workers were very kind and even the housekeeping crew was very helpful in making us feel at home. On our 2nd night there, we realized that they don't start serving breakfast until 7:30 a.m. which was a bummer because our boys had to be at a baseball game by 7:20 a.m. . When we asked the front desk about it, they advised that there would be a few cold items available earlier in the morning but that they would be serving the hot breakfast until 10:30 so we had plenty of time to get back and eat after the game. We arrived back shortly after 10 a.m. and the waffle machine was out of batter. I kindly asked the kitchen staff if they could refill it as we had an entire baseball team of hungry boys en route that were going to want waffles. The kitchen staff refused to refill it and told me that it was too close to quitting time for them to do that. The gentleman working told me to go talk to the lady in the kitchen if I disagreed with his decision. I went directly to the kitchen and explained to the cook that we had a large group and the kids really wanted waffles and instead of speaking to me, they spoke to one another in Spanish looking very annoyed and flustered and then finally they told me no, they would not fill the waffle machine. I kindly asked the lady from the front desk if she could please have them fill it for us, which she did go in and ask them and when they told her they didn't want to, that was that. We had a very large group of hungry kids without waffles and without biscuits to go with the gravy. This isn't a huge deal because there were some other things for them to eat but when I look for a high quality hotel for my family to stay at, I look for one that has exceptional customer service. I like the facilities that have employees who go above and beyond for their customers and the kitchen staff at the Staybridge Suites did NOT do this. It was a very small request and it would have taken them just seconds to refill the machine so the kids could all have waffles but they refused. It is something very small that made a huge difference in the customer service rating that I gave. 

Extras: The Staybridge Suites has just about everything you could ever need but we found it was lacking a couple of things like ice machines and vending areas. The refrigerators have ice machines but it took ours 2 full days to get us one container of ice. They do have a pantry in the main lobby but you can expect to pay high prices for things like $2 for a soda. I prefer to have a vending area that I can visit for those late-night munchies. We left the hotel and went to a nearby grocery and bought snacks and drinks to keep in the room so we wouldn't have to pay the high prices in the pantry. They do serve a complimentary hot, buffet style breakfast every morning so this is a huge plus. You get your basic breakfast items like cereal, muffins, bagels, fruit, etc. and then they offer things like eggs, sausage, french toast, waffles, and even biscuits and gravy! 

Overall, we would recommend the Staybridge Suites Indianapolis/Carmel to any family looking for a great place to stay. We were very impressed with the facilities and we feel like they have went above and beyond to create a facility that you can make your temporary home. 



Thursday, July 12, 2012

All Terrain Sunscreen


It's no secret that this has been one HOT summer so far!  If you look out into our yard, the signs of extreme heat are everywhere from our withered garden to our ugly, dead grass. One thing that hasn't been damaged by the sun this summer, however, is our skin thanks to All Terrain Sunscreen!!!  Our 10 year old has played dozens of baseball games and we have relied on the AquaSport SPF 30 to keep him protected from the sun during long games.  AquaSport SPF 30 was just rated the top sunscreen in the June 2012 Consumer Report Sunscreen Report. AquaSport SPF 30 is oxybenzone-free and has full-spectrum protection from UVA (skin cancer) and UVB (sunburn) rays.  With non-nano and un-coated zinc oxide, it is natural, non-whitening, non-greasy and fragrance free lotion or spray that will not cause eye stinging.  It is water and sweat resistant and is proven to be effective after 80 minutes in the water.  

We have been using the AquaSport prior to every game and even after a day with over 12 hours in the sun, we are all completely protected from the suns most harmful rays.  Unlike a lot of the sunscreens we have used in the past, I love that the AquaSport doesn't leave a film on the skin. Some sunscreens are really greasy and others are very sticky and we didn't experience any of that with the AquaSport. It glided onto the skin and didn't leave any kind of yucky residue. It doesn't bother our son at all, not even when he starts to pour sweat and that is a HUGE plus for us!


According to Consumer Reports, Aqua Sport SPF 30 was one of the highest scoring sunscreens based on effectiveness.  It also was one of the best against staining. I have to put this in here because I think this is very important. I purchased a big brand name sunscreen not long ago in the spray form. Our children all used it and every single one of our new beach towels was ruined by it!!!!  It stained everything it touched including a brand new swimsuit that my daughter was wearing. We didn't have any trouble at all with the AquaSport. I used it on my son multiple times throughout a baseball tournament last weekend and we didn't have any staining issues at all.  EWS's Skin Deep Report also listed AquaSport as one of the top performing sunscreens.  The report lists top-rated sunscreens with broad spectrum (UVA and UVB) protection but fewer hazardous chemicals that penetrate the skin. 

Want to try it out for yourself?

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One lucky reader is going to receive their own AquaSport sunscreen to try out!!!



I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Tomoson.com. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers. 


Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Coupon Cabin App



I have never been a hardcore couponista, mostly because I just don't have the time. With a family that includes a husband and four children, my time is extremely valuable to me and to take the time to find the coupons and then cut the coupons and then actually remember to take the coupons with me when I go to the store, it's just not feasible for me.  So that is why I was thrilled when I found out about the Coupon Cabin App!!!

First I must say that the App is extremely easy to use. It has a nice, clean, easy to read layout so you can find what you are looking for quickly and easily!  With a quick tap you can explore each topic and find the deals within each specific category.  


Coupon Codes: This category is filled with coupon codes for internet shops. You can see what is available for each store and the average savings for each code.  It also includes expiration dates and how successful other users have had with each deal. This is great for me because I don't want to waste my time on a deal that has had a 0% success rate! You are able to get the coupon from the app or you can send it via email, social networking sites or even text messaging.  You can also set it as a favorite so you can come back later and check it out again!


Under Printables, you can find all of your favorite stores printable coupons.  These also include expiration dates and success rates and you can email them to yourself to make them easier to print.  

In the Grocery section, you can find brands and offers and again, these are emailed to you so you can print them.  I found everything from Arm & Hammer to General Mills coupons in this section.  For example, there is a coupon for $1 General Mills cereal that expires on August 30, 2012 and it has a 100% success rate. Score!!!! You just pull up the coupon and tap "email me" and you are good to go! 

While browsing the Deals, I found some awesome buys like night shirts from the Disney Store for 51% off and 25% off Vera Bradleys!!!!  I also found deals from some of my favorite stores like Old Navy, Victoria Secret and Kohls! You just tap the "Shop Now!" button to be taken to their online shopping page to make your purchases!

If you want to find local deals specific to your area, try the Local button.  Unfortunately it couldn't find any deals in my area but if you live in a bigger city, you might have better luck than those of us who live in the cornfields :) 

One of my favorite sections was Gas Prices.  It's really important to me to find the best gas prices around and this is the perfect way to do it!  We are heading to Indy soon and this will be a great tool!


If you like free stuff, you will want to check out the Freebies section for sure!

Finally, the Coupons for Troops is an awesome program where you can collect coupons to send to our troops.What a fantastic program to help those serving in our military!!!

This is an awesome app and if you are like me and you like to save money where you can, you will definitely want to check it out!!!!  This is like a dozen apps all rolled into one!!! You can view it and download it HERE! This is available for both iPhones and Android! 

*This is not a paid post. All opinions are my own*

Higgs Phonics



I am a huge advocate of reading and as a mother of 4 children, I have learned just how important it is for our children to have strong reading skills as early as possible.  We recently had the chance to review the Higgs Phonics program and I cannot say enough good things about it!  Our older children are going into the 2nd, 4th and 5th grades and while all of them are already great readers, this program really promotes mastery so even they benefited from the books and I saw a remarkable difference, especially in my youngest child.  



Higgs Phonics includes a three-volume series that employs key phonetic rules to develop unique decoding skills to build solid English reading and language ability for learners of all ages.  Authored by educator R.L. Higgs, students are given the tools they need to read English in 40 hours or less!  These books are packed full of valuable exercises that focus on repetition so learners are able to more quickly grasp the key ideas.  

In Volume 1, learners are introduced to the alphabet, letters, vowels and consonants.  With over 300 fun exercises and activities, your learner will be engaged from the beginning. From there it goes into blends and diphthongs and then concludes with decoding of more complex words and gives all the tricks you need to gain mastery.  This includes lessons on the dictionary, parts of speech and even punctuation! Our school aged children already know the alphabet quite well but this has been an invaluable tool for us for our 2nd grader.  Since he is a beginner reader, there are so many great exercises in this program that will really help him excel, even before the start of the new school year.  I want him to not only be able to read but I want him to be able to comprehend and retain the information he is reading and I think this will be a huge help to him!  Our 4th and 5th graders who are 9 and 10 are enjoying volume 3 so much that they actually ask if they can do the exercises when we have downtime. That is unheard of in the summer time! I love that they are excited about all of the new things they are learning and I know it's going to give them a great head start for the new school year!! 

Higgs Phonics is available in print or in e-book form online at Amazon.com! 

I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Tomoson.com. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.



Be Careful Little Mouth What You Say

Being quiet has never been a strong trait of mine. As a matter of fact, since as far back as I can remember, probably grade school, I can remember my mouth getting me into trouble. I am a very opinionated person and I believe I was also born without a filter which is sometimes a good thing but sometimes it can be a very bad thing. For the most part I keep my stronger opinions to myself but there are times when I feel like something must be said and that's where I seem to get myself into trouble sometimes. But having said that, there is one time that you will never find me standing back and keeping quiet and that is when my children are involved. I feel like my job as a Mom comes with so many other jobs and one of those other jobs is "advocacy." If I don't advocate for my child sometimes, who will? My 10 year old, Drew, didn't take after me in that department..... he is just like his Daddy. Often times I feel like I have to speak up for him and take up for him because he is too backward to do it himself. My 9 year old daughter, now she's another story (HA!) but having a quiet child, while not the end of the world, can be really disheartening sometimes because you so want them to stand up for themselves but you just know that they aren't going to. 

Drew has played baseball since he was 4 years old. He loves it! I can still remember his first year when he ran the bases backwards (yep, he ran to 3rd base first) and sometimes he wouldn't run at all unless his coach held his hand and ran with him. Yep, just a little on the shy side.  But watching him play has always been a highlight of mine. When he got a few years older and started to play on more competitive teams, I decided that there was no better place to be. He's such a hard worker and never complains about practicing, even when we are in the middle of a 100 degree+ heat wave.  We plan our entire summer around his ball schedule. Yep, that's right. Before we do anything at all, we check our ball schedule and if there is ball, that takes 1st place. Drew loves being a part of the team and knowing that his team will suffer without him being there, he makes sure he is always there. He has played in the worst conditions and a couple of times even when he was sick.  He just hates to let people down and I love that about him. He is dependable and I think that's a great trait to have. 

When I picked him up from practice last night, I could see something wrong in his eyes as soon as he walked out of the dugout. He gave me "the look" that he wanted to get out of there, FAST! I hurried to the van and as soon as I got in, I could see he was hurting. Before I could even ask him what was wrong, he had already burst into tears. All I could make out were the words "outfield, cup, mean." Oh geesh. I had already started backing out of the parking lot so I whipped back in the parking spot and put my van in park again. I looked at the clock and realized that the All Star game had already started and I was missing my beloved Joey Votto playing 1st base for the National League. HAHA! So I told him I couldn't understand him so he needed to stop crying for a minute so I could hear what happened. Continuing to cry, he told me what had happened and through the tears I really didn't understand the problem. So I told him I was getting out and I was going to talk to his coach. Long story short was that because he didn't wear a protective cup to practice, his coach made him spend the practice in Left Field instead of his usual position, 2nd base.  Now while this normally wouldn't upset my son so much, he was upset because 5 other boys on the team also weren't wearing cups and they got to keep their positions. So he felt like he was singled out. Now inside my head I was thinking, just let it go. Drop it. Forget about it. It's not that big of a deal. Maybe the coach was just having a bad day and my son was the one who had to suffer for it. Big deal. He'll get over it. But one look at my little boy's heartbroken eyes and I couldn't let it go. So I politely asked the coach what had happened during practice. Yes, politely, I swear. So his coach pretty much told me the same thing that Drew had told me. That was what had happened. And yes, he confirmed that other boys on the team also were not wearing a cup and yes, they got to keep their positions for the practice. This was strange to me because Drew never wears a cup to practice and it has never been a big deal. He does wear one to games but he absolutely hates them and prefers not to wear one so we have never made a big deal out of it.  But for some reason last night it was a big deal. Was I mad that my kid got singled out? Absolutely. Was I sad for my son who had to experience the unfairness of the situation? Of course. Was I insulted that the coach didn't seem to care about my son who has been so faithful to his team for 4 years?  Without a doubt. But I walked away. I listened to his side of the story and walked away. I told Drew that sometimes things in life just aren't fair but that we just suck it up and move on. It's hard when you see your kid work so hard for something that he wants so badly. Never missing a practice, never missing a game just to secure his spot on the team. Always showing up. On time. Every time. Giving 100%. But it's a life lesson that he needs to learn sooner or later. Life isn't always fair. Someday someone else is going to get a promotion that he deserved to have. Someday he is going to have a boss or a coworker that he doesn't like. Maybe even a boss that picks on him. But sometimes things in life can't be changed. I went home last night and took a lot of deep breaths. A lot. And I smiled when I saw Drew cuddled up with Daddy watching the All Star game, all happy again. Sometimes we can make a mountain out of a mole hill. But this time I felt good that I walked away because I had someone watching me. My wonderful 10 year old son who I love to death who I want to teach that sometimes it's better to be the bigger person and just walk away from things.  He's such a great boy that I am SO proud of and someday he will realize that these problems are just one of the many hiccups he is going to have in life. But I feel good knowing that I am teaching him, by example, that some things in life just aren't worth getting yourself upset over. 




Umi Deal of the Month PLUS Giveaway

Just in from Umi Shoes!!!!

If you haven't seen it yet, Umi has an awesome deal of the month for you all right now! You can get the adorable Halina right now for just $23. I so wish my little girl could still fit into Umi's shoes because these are so cute and would be perfect for back to school! Hurry up and take advantage of this awesome deal before it's gone!  The Halina is available in 2 different colors that any little girl is sure to love!!!


I know most of the country is probably in "Summer mode" right now but our kids go back to school next month so I am already thinking Back to School.  I have been picking up things here and there already so it's not so much to get all at once when they go back and good shoes are always a must.  Our 7 year old is extremely active so we always try to find him a great pair of tennis shoes to go back to school with and he loved the Ryder from Umi! They are lightweight and super comfortable and he tells me they make him run faster! HA!  Since he is 100% boy, it also helps that these are machine washable and they have removable, antibacterial insoles allowing us to keep them looking (and smelling!) fresh and clean! 


While my son loves the Ryder, I was really rooting for him to pick the Tyler style! I think these would be perfect for Back to School 


Not in the market for boys shoes? That's ok! Umi has an awesome line of girls shoes too! In addition to the deal of the month shoe, they also have some other sweet choices that I am loving.

The Paley is my favorite (right) but I also love the Addie too (left)!


Check out Umi Shoes for their full line of shoes for both boys and girls, baby to big kids!

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*This is not a paid post. All opinions are my own. Review and Giveaway were made possible at no cost by the company and/or representing PR firm*




Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Guest Post: It's a Miracle


Week One: It’s a Miracle
By: Ada Hilton


I would have to say that Week one on Nutrisystem was a success. I am so excited to finally find a program that works. As of the end of week one I have lost 8 pounds. I know that this is not going to be the normal loss but it is enough to kick start me into wanting to keep working on it. I have to admit that I had a few cheats but nothing big. I took the grandkids to McDonald’s and I found myself eating fries as I was plating their food. I realized this week that I am a grazer. I nibble on food while I am cooking, I find myself wanting to munch on snacks while I am working. I had not noticed this before I had to watch everything I ate. I will have to admit that the program is not hard but at first it is time consuming. I had to plan ahead what our meals were and what our add in groceries would be. It took a little time to write a grocery list then plan each day in advance. I also had to portion out the veggies and fruits; otherwise Rick would eat more than allowed. We had developed a lot of unhealthy eating habits that will take some time to break. But we are excited to be in this journey.

My husband, Rick, also lost 8 pounds but even better news is that his sugar levels have dropped almost to normal. For the first time in years, this week his sugar was only 150 in the morning. I can’t remember the last time it was under 200 and his “normal” was usually 350. We went to the Dr for his regular checkup and talked with the Dr about it. He said the goal for his sugar levels is to be under 200 (normal range is 70-120). He explained that anytime my husband’s sugar is over 200 it is causing damage to his body, even if he can’t feel it happening. He told him to keep doing what he is doing and he wants to follow up in a month, and may even lower some of his medication. So we are super excited that it is this low. Rick says he can see better and he has more energy. I chuckle when I see him running in place and swinging his arms around. His exercise has been nearly nonexistent. I have been telling him for a year that pushing the buttons on the remote does not count as exercise. I purchased an elliptical and the first day he could do about 5 rounds, now he is up to 100. I even overheard him on the phone telling our Pastor that Nutrisystem saved his life.
Thanks to Nutrisystem for making this success possible for us. Looking forward to more great results.

Want to lose weight and get healthy on Nutrisystem? Join today by calling 1-888-853-4689 or by visiting http://www.nutrisystem.com/nsblog

*Rick and Ada are being provided four months of Nutrisystem food and counsel at no cost. Ada is trying the Women's Success Select and Rick is trying the Nutrisystem D program for diabetics. All opinions are 100% their own*

Friday, July 6, 2012

Hearthsong Garden Fort and $50 Giveaway




It has been a long hot summer here so far but that hasn't stopped our kids from playing outside! They love to be outdoors and they can find things to occupy themselves for hours but every once in awhile they need a little help and that's where Hearthsong comes in!  They have a huge variety of outdoor toys that are perfect for Summertime play and we were so excited to receive a Garden Fort from them!


The garden fort is definitely a unique playhouse that your children are sure to love! They can grow a lush, leafy dwelling right in your backyard with the three varieties of seeds that come in the kit including Black-Eyed Susan Vine, Cypress Vine and asparagus beans!!!  

This was the first year that we had a garden so our kids were all into this nature business and this was right up their alley! It was super easy to put together and now we just have to wait for our seeds to sprout. You plant the seeds around the base and the plants should grow up the frame to create the walls and roof.  I will try to remember to update the blog with a picture later on after everything blooms!!

If you are looking for an awesome summertime product, definitely check out the garden fort from Hearthsong or visit their website and see what else you can find to spark your interest! From everything to pool toys to tire swings, you are sure to find something. 

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One lucky reader is going to win a $50 Gift Certificate to Hearthsong.Com! 



*This is not a paid post. All opinions are my own. Review and Giveaway were provided at no cost via the company and/or representing PR firm*

Nutrisystem Week 8 #NSNation




This was definitely one of THOSE weeks if you know what I am talking about. After the crazy storms that swept through our area and left us without power, I was very scared to weigh in this week. Without power meant that I could not prepare my Nutrisystem meals and there are only so many bars you can eat in a day. LOL We ended up eating out almost the entire weekend and while I stuck to the healthiest choices I could find, that's not always the easiest thing to do. On top of that, we have had baseball tournaments nearly every weekend and I am finding it hard to balance things, especially when we go out after the games! It's difficult for me to choose which things I am going to sacrifice for sure. For instance, the last tournament, everybody went out for pizza afterwards. I really wanted to eat as I was starving but I hated to eat that pizza because I really wanted a tall, fruity drink. HA!  So I had to compromise and eat only one small square of pizza and I had them hold my whipped cream on my strawberry daquiri. LOL  Seriously though. I find situations like this to be very difficult but I think I am doing a great job at still choosing what's best for me and NOT going overboard.  I am not much of an alcohol drinker but I do like to have a fruity drink now and again, especially  in the summertime. I try to make up for those special times with extra workouts and it seems to be working out for me!

Results:

Week 1: 7 pounds
Week 2: 3 pounds
Week 3: 2 pounds
Week 4: 3 pounds
Week 5: 1 pound
Week 6: 4 pounds
Week 7: 1 pound
Week 8: 1 pound

Total weight lost: 22 pounds

Woot!

Want to lose weight and get healthy on Nutrisystem? Join today by calling  1-888-853-4689 or by visiting http://www.nutrisystem.com/nsblog

*I am being provided four months of Nutrisystem food and counsel for free as a blogger. All opinions are 100% my own*

Thursday, July 5, 2012

What Drowning Really Looks Like


I can't tell you how many stories I have read already this Summer where young children and even adults have drowned.  Just a few weeks ago a 20 year old young man lost his life here in my hometown and just recently I saw where several children have drowned in different situations.  Just last year, a friend of ours  lost his only child to a drowning accident and it still sends chills down my spine today just thinking about it. Last year I received an email with some really valuable information from Dr. Pia on what drowning really looks like and I thought it was a good time to share. It's not like what we see on tv with arms flailing and someone screaming for help. In an article in the Coast Guard's On Scene Magazine, Dr. Pia describes the instinctive drowning response as outlined below.  You can also watch this informative video that actually shows someone drowning so you will know what to look for. 
* Except in rare circumstances, drowning people are physiologically unable to call out for help. The respiratory system was designed for breathing. Speech is the secondary or overlaid function. Breathing must be fulfilled, before speech occurs.
* Drowning people’s mouths alternately sink below and reappear above the surface of the water. The mouths of drowning people are not above the surface of the water long enough for them to exhale, inhale, and call out for help. When the drowning people’s mouths are above the surface, they exhale and inhale quickly as their mouths start to sink below the surface of the water.

* Drowning people cannot wave for help. Nature instinctively forces them to extend their arms laterally and press down on the water’s surface. Pressing down on the surface of the water, permits drowning people to leverage their bodies so they can lift their mouths out of the water to breathe.

* Throughout the Instinctive Drowning Response, drowning people cannot voluntarily control their arm movements. Physiologically, drowning people who are struggling on the surface of the water cannot stop drowning and perform voluntary movements such as waving for help, moving toward a rescuer, or reaching out for a piece of rescue equipment.

* From beginning to end of the Instinctive Drowning Response people’s bodies remain upright in the water, with no evidence of a supporting kick. Unless rescued by a trained lifeguard, these drowning people can only struggle on the surface of the water from 20 to 60 seconds before submersion occurs. 

This doesn’t mean that a person that is yelling for help and thrashing isn’t in real trouble – they are experiencing aquatic distress. Not always present before the instinctive drowning response, aquatic distress doesn’t last long – but unlike true drowning, these victims can still assist in their own rescue. They can grab lifelines, throw rings, etc.

Look for these other signs of drowning when persons are in the water:

Head low in the water, mouth at water level
Head tilted back with mouth open
Eyes glassy and empty, unable to focus
Eyes closed
Hair over forehead or eyes
Not using legs – Vertical
Hyperventilating or gasping
Trying to swim in a particular direction but not making headway
Trying to roll over on the back
Appear to be climbing an invisible ladder.
And parents – children playing in the water make noise. When they get quiet, you get to them and find out why.

Be safe this Summer and if you are swimming with your children, PLEASE keep them within arms length from you at all times. Lifeguards aren't babysitters. They are lifesavers. It's your responsibility to watch your children at all times!!!!

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Save Money at the Pump



My husband and I recently went through our bank statements to see where the majority of our extra money goes and we weren't surprised to see that most of it is spent at the gas pumps!  We spend so much money on gas so it is always nice to find ways to save. If you have a Shell Gas Station near you, definitely check out the Spin to Save promo they have going on right now! By spinning the wheel, you can save up to $.25 off per gallon and you can add to the savings by making eligible purchases or even for referring others to try out the Spin to Save promo!  I have seen people filling up their gas tanks for literally less than $1.00 which is CRAZY. I figure we can all use the savings at the pump to spend on more important things so sign up here today!  I only got $.05 off a gallon when I used my 3 spins but some of my friends got $.10/off and another even got $.20! Doesn't seem like a lot but those savings sure add up! 

Monday, July 2, 2012

Mr. Beams Emergency Lights



Over the past week or so, we have experienced some crazy storms that have left millions of people without power.  When storms hit last week, we lost power for over 27 hours and we were left in the dark. Literally. Living in the country without any type of lights for situations like these, our house was pitch black. We scrambled around to find flashlights and thanks to wickless candles, we didn't even have any candles to light!  It was a real pain so you could probably imagine my excitement when a box showed up on our porch the next morning from Mr. Beams!  



We received the Ready Bright system that includes a Power Outage Detector, Stair and Path Light and a Ceiling Light.  My husband was at work and I was able to install the system myself within 15 minutes so that is a huge plus. I don't like complicated systems that I can't handle myself and I was really impressed with how quickly the system installed. 

What you see here is the Detector which also doubles as a flashlight. As soon as the power goes out, this detects it, illuminates and sends out a signal to the other lights to activate. Within seconds, you have light and not just any light! You have bright lights that pretty much light up the entire house.  When our power went out a second time over the weekend, we had the system installed and what a HUGE difference it made.  The flashlight is extremely bright and it's in a location where even the kids can find it quickly and easily.  We were able to safely navigate around the house and it took a lot of stress off of us because the kids weren't freaking out about being in the dark while we searched for our stash of flashlights.  

I love this video that shows exactly how the system works because I can relate to this woman totally! When our power went out for the first time last week, we were totally unprepared. When we finally got the flashlights all found, half of them didn't have batteries.  Now if the power goes out again, we are totally prepared!!!!


Due to the storms, Mr. Beams is offering FREE overnight shipping right now for all orders in the U.S. This is a great time to prepare yourself should the power go out again!!!


*No monetary exchange was made for this post. All opinions are my own. Product was received free of charge from the company and/or representing PR firm*